Everything you might want
to know.

Ontoxicated is a private, curated social experience for LGBTQ+ adults (18+). We bring together verified, like-minded individuals into a privately selected venue for an overnight sanctuary built around desire, freedom, connection, and explicit consent.

Ontoxicated is an intimate private salon and sanctuary. Unlike crowded public clubs, our gatherings are curated, discreet, and strictly limited in capacity to foster authentic chemistry and uninhibited connection.

Salons take place in privately selected luxury residences, architectural lofts, and secluded private venues across major cities. Secret venue location codes are revealed exclusively to approved guests 24 hours prior to the event.

Expressive, elegant, sensual, or whatever empowers you to feel most authentic and confident. Specific theme guidelines may be provided in your private invitation.

Submit your confidential application via our vetting form. Once reviewed and approved by our concierge team, you will receive an invitation code to access upcoming salon calendars and book passes.

Applications are reviewed discreetly within 24 to 48 hours. Upon approval, you will receive an email confirmation with access to reserve passes for forthcoming salons.

Yes, 100% confidential. Card billing statements reflect a discreet descriptor (ONTOXICATED SANCTUARY), and your attendance is never published or shared.

Full refunds are issued for cancellations made 72+ hours before the event. Cancellations within 48–72 hours receive a 50% refund or salon credit. Read our complete Refund Policy for details.

To guarantee complete privacy, security, and an intimate sanctuary environment free from unvetted public intrusion.

Strict zero-camera policy. All phone camera lenses are sealed with tamper-evident stickers upon check-in. Recording inside results in immediate removal and permanent ban.

To maintain venue security and door flow, re-entry is restricted once doors are sealed for the evening.

Consent must be explicit, enthusiastic, and continuous. Designated Concierge Safety Leads are present throughout the night to assist any guest. Review our House Rules & Non-Negotiables.

Locate a Concierge Safety Lead or host immediately. We enforce a zero-tolerance policy for harassment or non-consensual behavior.