Our Non-Negotiables.

Every guest is an active participant in creating our collective atmosphere.

• Engage with openness, curiosity, and warmth towards fellow guests.
• Be fully present; leave outside drama, judgment, and performative behavior at the door.

Every person controls their own boundaries, personal space, and desires at all times.

• A "no" is final, absolute, and requires no explanation or justification.
• Never pressure, persuade, or negotiate when someone sets a personal boundary.

Enthusiastic, explicit, and continuous consent is required for all interactions.

• Consent given once does not apply indefinitely or to other individuals.
• Silence or lack of verbal objection is NEVER consent.

You are responsible for your own actions, state of mind, and interactions throughout the night.

• Know your personal limits with alcohol, substances, and emotional energy.

Our gatherings are carefully timed experiences; doors open and seal at designated hours.

• Arrive within the specified door entry window.
• Respect the flow of the venue, staff, and hosts.

Enjoyment and liberation must never compromise safety or personal awareness.

• Extreme intoxication or uninhibited aggression is strictly prohibited.

Ontoxicated is an inclusive sanctuary for LGBTQ+ adults across all identities, bodies, and backgrounds.

• Zero tolerance for racism, transphobia, body-shaming, misogyny, or harassment.
• Violators are permanently removed and banned immediately.

What happens inside the salon stays inside the salon.

• No photography, videography, or audio recording inside the venue.
• Phone camera lenses are sealed at check-in.

Entry is strictly limited to verified, approved members.

• Do not share secret venue addresses or access codes with unvetted individuals.